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Tuesday, August 30, 2011

~Society Lowering Standards~ Part 1

Lately, I have noticed how we (society) are rapidly making things that were once unacceptable, acceptable.For example, long time ago alcohol was prohibited,but since then it was made acceptable again.Prostitution was illegal in the U.S.,but now it's accepted in certain states as long as they followed certain rules and payed taxes...What has this world come to? 

Of course now society is debating whether or not marijuana should be legalized.At this point,it appears to be that more and more people are expressing their approval of marijuana being legalized or just expressing their indifference to the matter.Everything that has been legalized or simply just made more socially acceptable within the past 20 years have been things-issues that made society 'feel better'. 

Gay marriage has since been legalized in New York and has always been legal in other states and countries.This subject is sooooooo touchy that it most heterosexual people don't even want to think about it let alone talk about it unless they are major gay/lesbian supporters.Which leads me to that fact that now it's 'cool' to be a gay advocate as an heterosexual person; most celebrities always campaign about it and get people hyped about it....


What do you think?



-Lauren

Friday, August 19, 2011

~Introspection~

What does it mean to be "introspective"?

I feel that the definition for "introspective" has been skewed to fit people's situations.In other words,they can say that have been looking at themselves and realized that there are still issues to be dealt with,meanwhile they only scratched the surface and don't want to go any deeper yet because it's uncomfortable for them realize that they have some major issues that need to be addressed.Common phrases like "We all have our issues" or "We're not perfect" are no longer legitimate excuses for continuing on in bitterness,control,anger,frustration,pride,control,manipulation and so on.For anyone who claims to be living a Christian life HAVE to be able to look at those crucial areas of themselves in order to rid themselves of it and press on with out constant conflict over every little thing that comes their way.

To many Christians are living their lives without JOY in their hearts because they are hindering THEMSELVES from having it.As human beings in general,we like to assume it's another person's fault for our unhappiness...If that's the case, then you are already on the wrong path.No person on this earth is responsible for your happiness! Best believe that if you don't have joy...you prevented it.I know that's a big pill to swallow,but I myself had to deal with this fact fairly recently.

I use to rely on the people around me to make me happy.If they weren't happy-I wasn't happy...so if you hang around people who seem to be NEVER happy about ANYTHING in particular you will be miserable! They don't even have to be unhappy about everything in life, they could just be unhappy about a particular situation or experience. When you spend time in counsel with these type of people you allow their foul spirit(s) to penetrate you.This then adds to the "baggage" that most people carry around with them already;excess "baggage" clouds the mind and suppresses the Holy Spirit from being able to "stretch out" and do some house cleaning as you do some introspection.............


-Lauren