Single

As a young women we are constantly bombarded with sex, sexuality and relationships to the point that if we aren’t sexually active, in a relationship or identify as anything other than straight, we are instantly pushed out of the “inner circle” and labeled as weird, losers or liars.

It’s sad that when women say that they are a virgin they are instantly accused of lying or looked at as if they have two heads. As time has gone on sex has gotten more and more prevalent than ever before; children are having to be educated about safe sex at a much younger age, in most cases at the age of 9 years old.

When did being a virgin become so antiquated?

Although, there’s a flip side to the acceptance of sex; one can not have too much sex or they’re considered to be freaks or addicts or they are have/having sex with too many partners. Oh, and don’t forget it’s also bad if you are sleeping with the person on the first date!

It’s funny how there is “morality clauses” within immoral practices. So one can have premarital sex with ONLY a few people, but they have to be beyond the first or possibly second date (unless they’re famous or attractive to everyone), and can’t have too much sex unless you want someone to label you a freak.  And if you’re single you are expected to date because “it’s only normal” to do, but if you’re single and rather wait for the right one or pray about possibly going out with someone, they are looked at as a “weird Jesus freak” or a “prude”.

I have learned that not everyone has to feel like they have to keep up with the pace of those who are constantly going out with someone and sleeping with random people that they think are cute or nice or “just for fun”. Go at your own pace, pray about it, pray for your future spouse, not just a boyfriend or girlfriend but someone that you can spend your life with.

You are not condemned if you have already had sex and lived life like your friends, but now is the time to make that shift from casual sex and down grading the idea of saving yourself; and start being mindful of who you let get close to you and abstain.

Benefits of Being a Christian

Here’s what you have to do:

Say this prayer:

Dear Lord I accept you as my Lord and Savior. Your son, Jesus Christ died on the cross and shed Hid blood for my sins and rose again. I repent for all of my sins and ask you to wash me clean of all unrighteousness. I ask for the infilling of the Holy Spirit with the evidence of speak in tongues, so that He may be in me and not just with me. Thank you Lord for your mercy and grace. Amen

Benefit Package Includes:

·         Salvation

·         Eternal life in Heaven

·         Authority over the spiritual realm.

·         Favor

·         Miracles

·         Supernatural Knowledge

·         Supernatural Healing

·         A heavenly father that is greater than any other.

·         Automatic adoption into the largest family you’ll ever know.

·         Confidence

·         Counseling

·         Best friend that won’t share your secrets with anyone else.

·         Navigator for your life.

Life Time Warranty

Covers all mistakes and sins by simply repenting.

Note: Trust me this deal can’t be passed up, it’s free but only offered for a limited time only!!

Godly

2 Peter 1:3

New International Version (NIV)

Confirming One’s Calling and Election

³ His divine power has given us everything we need for a godly life through our knowledge of him who called us by his own glory and goodness.

We all have the ability to lead godly lives, however life doesn’t provide a safe environment to lead a godly life. Because we live in such a conflicting world, where everyone has their own interpretation of who God is and what it means to live a godly life it causes confusion for those of us who are trying to follow the leading of the Holy Spirit.

Everyone has an interpretation for how to lead a godly life; in 2 Peter 1 we see that in order to live a godly life is through the knowledge of the Lord.

What does it mean by knowledge of Him?

The way we gain knowledge about anything is by studying books, researching online or watching somebody or something complete an action as well as using some of our common sense to fill in the holes.

The way we gain knowledge about the Lord is by reading and studying the word, through prayer and hearing the word of God. When we stay constant, reading or listening only to the same concepts-the Lord’s word, we can live a godly life.

Be Happy

Be happy where you are in life, even if it’s not where you want to be in the long run. The reason you need to be happy where you currently are in life is because you are alive and could have been in a worse situation. You could be living outside in park, be on your death bed or even suffering from several mental illnesses. The point is that it could always be worse, but it ISN’T.

You have the ability to change your mind about your current situation and move forward. Do not wallow in the past successes that are no longer present, do not become depressed because you thought you would be further in your career, in your relationship or Christian walk.

Don’t forget ALL the blessings in your life don’t look back on them as a way to compare then and now, but look back at them and know that it can happen again. Blessings aren’t offered as a one-time only deal, you can be where you use to be or in a better position if that’s a desire of your heart. The goal is to stay the course that you’re on and be prayerful about all your future decisions and about where it is that you would like to be and asking God where He would like to see you.

If after prayer the Holy Spirit says that God has something different in mind for don’t be discouraged, just know that He has greater in mind for your life and may tap into a gifting that you never knew you had, or He knows you need to have more or new experience in an area before you enter the season you’re waiting for.

Be happy where you are and expect more for the future!