The power of forgiveness is an amazing ability to
have. Forgiveness can release,bind and speed up things in your life.
You hold so much weight in your ability to forgive
someone who has done you wrong in some way. When you withhold your forgiveness you
are forever linking yourself to that person until you forgive them.
The offense can be as little as someone stealing your
bike in middle school to someone who had physically harmed you in some form.
Everyone has had someone wrong them in life,but it’s how you move forward
afterwards that has the longest lasting effects. So, holding onto your ability
to forgive the person/people involved in doing you wrong,you are tightening the
cuffs that are linking you with them. Meanwhile that person(s) is moving on
with their lives, possibly not even thinking about you or what they have done
to you.
Some of you may be satisfied knowing this and think
that the other party doesn’t deserve to be forgiven because you are left with
the aftermath of what was done to you,but you have to remember that you can’t
be forgiven by God because you are withholding your forgiveness. He is no
respecter of persons, therefore He will not forgive some believers and not
others because He felt like it. The only way you can prevent God’s forgiveness
is if you withhold yours.
Don’t let the person(s) move on with their lives
while you’re stuck in your feelings about what had happened.
Forgiving is not condoning what was done to you, it
is an act or choice that you make because you don’t want to linked to them
anymore and you want to be able to be forgiven in the future.